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The Wizard of Oz and Other Narcissists: Coping with the One-Way Relationship in Work, Love, and Family

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Author: Eleanor Payson
Publisher: Julian Day Publications
Category: Book

Buy New: $14.95

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Media: Paperback
Pages: 187
Shipping Weight (lbs): 0.7
Dimensions (in): 8.9 x 6 x 0.6

ISBN: 0972072837
Dewey Decimal Number: 616.85854
EAN: 9780972072830
ASIN: 0972072837

Publication Date: October 1, 2002
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Editorial Reviews:

Product Description
Every day headlines are filled with examples of narcissistic individuals in positions of power who are nothing more than impostors plundering and wrecking havoc on the lives of others. From the corporate moguls of Enron and WorldCom to the clergy leaders of the Catholic Church, we daily encounter narcissists and the self-serving systems that enable them. Helping people reclaim their lives from this sinister exploitative force is the mission behind Payson's book, The Wizard of Oz and Other Narcissists: Coping with the One-Way Relationship in Work, Love, and Family. Using simple metaphors from the American classic, The Wizard of Oz, Payson illustrates how Dorothy's journey captures all the seductive illusions and challenges that occur when we encounter the narcissist. Empowering the reader with the ABCs of unhealthy narcissism and the unique problems that occur when a person becomes involved with the narcissist, Payson gives step-by-step practical tools to identify, protect, and heal from these destructive relationships. Largely un-addressed in the psychology and self-help literature, this ground breaking book offers hope and help to those who have been drawn into these devastating relationships. She includes illuminating case studies that identify the problems that occur in the different types of relationships, from co-workers, to friends, to parents, to lovers. Readers employing these insights and skills will find new abilities to identify and protect against the narcissist's manipulations and take back control of their lives.

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5 out of 5 stars

Enlightening November 16, 2008
I highly recommend this book to anyone searching to understand the narcissistic relationship they may be in. I have been at a loss to understand my own and how I could have fallen into this type of relationship. I think this book was written about our marriage! Now, after gaining insight into the narcissistic / co-dependent narcissist relationship, I understand totally how we "clicked" in the beginning and how after a few years he became dominating and I became the doormat. Now, armed with this information, my husband and I are on a wonderful journey together to separately heal each of our hearts from the past so that we may come back together in a healed, strong, equal and respectful marriage. I pray this is a journey many of you out there experience as well. God bless.

5 out of 5 stars

Best book ever on psychopaths/narcissists October 30, 2008
Having escaped a marriage with a narcissist/psychopath, I've read a number of books on the subject. This book wins hands down. I gave it to my friend, and she swears it taught her how to deal with her difficult boss.

4 out of 5 stars

To be carried everywhere and browsed on need October 24, 2008
0 out of 1 found this review helpful

This book is exactly the survival kit for victims of narcissists that I have been loking for. Enlightened, clear, simple, straight to the point.br /br /(I would have appreciated a few words on what kind of personality disorder individuals may end up caught up in the narcissist's net, and more practical tricks on how to deal with them from the specific point of view of the ones who get most easily hurt: bordeline and dependent.)br /br /(Also lacking, the whole sexual sphere: where does NPD cross sexual perversions, where it only appears to do, where it does not, and how to manage all that in relationships. A major theme in love, after all.

5 out of 5 stars

Great resource for dealing with people in an increasingly self-centered society October 9, 2008
This book is a terrific resource for anyone wishing to learn more about dealing with the self-centeredness that is so prevalent in today's society. The author's approach is very down-to-earth and concise--two qualities that enhance readability. Despite there seem to be few outside research sources cited (perhaps because there are few available?), the book is filled with high-quality examples from her professional experience that illustrate and reinforce her constructs. Definitely a "must read" for any therapist/counselor/family member dealing with a narcissist--covert or otherwise!

5 out of 5 stars

A Must Read for All People! October 3, 2008
1 out of 1 found this review helpful

This is the best self-help book I've read in a decade, and I've read hundreds. It's clear, insightful and most of all VALIDATING for anyone who's been in an abusive relationship with someone who has NPD. We don't know we are being abused, so we blame ourselves, doubt ourselves, and ultimately sacrifice our being- Ms. Payson sheds light on the dynamic not just in personal relationships- but in family, work, and friendships. As a result of this book, it inspired me to create an anchored, authentic and whole relationship with myself first, so I can have the same in relationships. Don't buy one copy, buy 10 and give them out as gifts.

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